Some people, and they're usually male, have this ugly, ludicrous notion that sex ruins a person. Worse, they almost always think that the woman is ruined, never the man. I don't know where it comes from, or why it still exists, or how that boneheaded, backward notion so strongly persists, historically, but it's shallow and brings people too easily to the edge of hatred and shame.
I had much more I just typed, tying this thought to human sacrifice, but it deleted all of that when I clicked submit. Sorry.
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