Happiness is something very simple, yet something too complicated, for each of us may be is something different. Our society has taught us, that happiness is measured by the material things we own or by the goals we have reached like a good career, an expensive car, a big house, a beautiful wife,
Happiness is something very simple, yet something too complicated, for each of us maybe something different. Our society has taught us, that happiness is measured by the material things we own or by the goals we have reached like a good career, an expensive car, a big house, a beautiful wife, wealthy lifestyle, a degree from a good university, which “guarantees” us a good future and brings us closer to this “better” life, full of happiness and joy…Well, we are going to be disappointed. Even if many people have it all, they are unhappy, depressed, stressed, they seek help going to doctors or buying antidepressants and with every next goal they reach, they feel less and less satisfied. Sorry, this is our human nature, we always want more. But not just, that we want more, we are no more happy for what we already have, we need the excitement of the new battles. Of course we are excited, only if we win! Then is it really the happiness in all this stuff we think it is, or happiness is something much bigger , much more complicated, much more difficult to understand… or… may be is something so simple… may be is just here, every day, every second, waiting for us to notice it.
In many conversations with people I have heard them saying , that life is mostly struggles , mostly difficulties, that is so hard to feel happy, satisfied, to feel joy and just shine bright, that every day is a struggle with your problems at work, at school, with your children, parents, friends, couple… I would ask, would they be happier, if they didn’t have their job, parents, couple, children ?! Would they feel happier and better if all the “sources” of their unhappiness just disappear right here, right now??? Of course NO! They are happy to have their children, couple, job …The same way they complain while having it all, the same way they will complain, if they don´t have it… Because happiness is not coming from out , but from in, we are the source of our own happiness, our inner light is already inside of us… We are the mastermind who can switch it On and Off, and no one else. We decide either one situation will make us happy or unhappy, depends on how we look at it, what attitude we will have toward it!
Happiness is a choice, your choice! In feeling joy there is not good or bad, there is no before or after, there is just now and be, gratitude, that you are here able to be now…connection between you and you, because you are all and all is you…
Happiness is not how much we have, not what we have, but how able we are to enjoy it. If we cannot find it In , we will never find it Out. We Are happiness, we Are joy, we are the Source!!!
Don´t let the everyday struggles and battles put your inner peace and joy in shade. Be the one , who is ruling his own emotions, be the creator of your own light!