It's kind of like the chicken and the egg isn't it
"Do I love you because you're beautiful, or are you beautiful because I love you?"
~Richard Rodgers and Oscar Hammerstein II, Cinderella
It's kind of like the the chicken and the egg riddle isn't it? I mean to say, does it ever really matter? For me, if my past relationships have any relevance here; and of course they do — I have truly loved at first sight because she was wonderfully beautiful; and at other times she was wonderfully beautiful simply because I truly was in love. Seems to me, love is love no matter it's foundation or beginning. After all, how one gets to the promised land of it is rather a moot point. Isn't it?